The reflections shared by the Civil Society Organizations (CSOs) and barangay officials of New Lucena offer inspiration and wisdom drawn from their daily lives, struggles, and aspirations. These individuals wear many hats—leaders, parents, and community members—facing their challenges with grace and a hopeful outlook. Here are some of the insights they’ve shared, offering both thought-provoking lessons and a window into their resilient spirit.

PB Monares aptly quoted, “Time is gold,” reminding us of the importance of time management. He shared, “For me, time is the most important resource, especially since our work is 24/7.” His dedication as a barangay official highlights how valuable time is, and how managing it well can make a difference in his public service responsibilities and personal life.

Kagawad Sucayan inspired everyone with her life motto, “Do your best, and God will do the rest.” She reflected on how she applies this wisdom daily: “I always give my best in raising our children, especially in instilling good values, and most of all, I have faith in God. I don’t know what their future holds, but I trust in God’s plan for them, so I give my best for my family and leave the results to Him.” This profound faith and commitment to family and community serve as a guiding light for her.

SK Jovelyn Flores believes in the power of careful thought before action. “Think a million times before you do,” she advises, emphasizing the need to weigh decisions carefully to make better choices for the future. Her wisdom speaks to the importance of being deliberate in leadership and life.

Kagawad Selauso holds fast to the value of compassion: “Be kind to everyone, especially to those who are unkind.” He shared his belief that the ones who seem the least kind are often the ones who need kindness the most. His approach to leadership is rooted in patience and understanding: “I’ve encountered people who may seem harsh or difficult, but when you get to know them, you realize where their attitude is coming from. That’s why I choose to be kind, especially in public service.” His words remind us that kindness can be transformative, even in the face of adversity.

Kagawad Solinap brought forward a timeless truth: “Clean your yard before criticizing others.” He reflected, “Many of us are quick to point out others’ faults, but we often don’t admit our own. I prefer to focus on my own home, tending to my garden and family instead of gossiping about others. No one is perfect, and only God is without sin.” His humility and grounded nature speak to the importance of self-reflection and personal responsibility.

During the recent ICW sessions with barangay Calumbuyan and Pasil, several participants shared reflections that further highlighted the transformative power of these engagements:

• “People may ask, ‘What do you gain from attending IPAT-SIAD?’ but they don’t understand because they’ve never experienced it themselves.”
• “I’ve learned not to be bothered by what others say. What matters is that I am working on improving myself, unlike those who remain stagnant.”
• “Every day, no matter how hard life gets, I make sure my day is productive, not filled with idle gossip.”
• “It’s okay if progress is slow; what’s important is there’s progress.”

Many reflected on how the program has changed their perspectives:

• “Despite the challenges, challenges teach us to be strong.”
• “Keep working hard, and eventually, God will bless us because we strive for a better life.”
• “Sometimes we struggle financially, but at least we survive each day.”
• “Prayers and unwavering faith in God help us rise every day.”

One participant movingly shared:
“This week, I learned the value of silence. I’ve felt broken and full of hatred at times, wanting revenge for the unfair treatment I’ve received. But in silence, I found peace. I realized it’s better to forgive and move on, as speaking out might lead to negative outcomes. Now, I focus on calming myself and finding new things to be grateful for each day.”

These reflections remind us that, despite daily struggles, the people of New Lucena maintain a positive outlook, driven by faith and resilience. They value time, kindness, and self-improvement, and through the power of their shared experiences, they find peace, strength, and purpose.

The ICW sessions have given them a space to reflect on their lives, their values, and the changes they want to see in their communities. It’s clear that programs like IPAT-SIAD provide more than just skills—they offer a new way of viewing life, where challenges become opportunities for growth and where kindness, faith, and personal development take center stage.

As one participant wisely summed up: “God will provide.”