Sometimes, all it takes is a deep breath, a quiet space, and a few days in Bulacan to awaken something powerful within you — a Kalma Self.
For the participants from New Lucena Polytechnic College (NLPC) who joined the Inner Conditioning Workshop (ICW) organized by SEA Inc. under the IPAT-SIAD program, the journey wasn’t just a break from routine. It was a turning point — a chance to pause, reflect, and reset.
In the peaceful surroundings of Bulacan, far from the noise of everyday life, something shifted. Minds slowed down. Hearts opened. And for many, long-held tension began to ease with each mindful breath.
Laarni’s Story: “When I calmed down, the world followed.”
From the moment Laarni arrived at the workshop venue, she knew something was different. The air felt lighter, the trees seemed to whisper stillness, and nature itself offered a kind of quiet reassurance.
“It felt like nature was hugging me. I could finally breathe — deeply. And I realized, this was what I’d been missing.”
That weekend gave her more than rest. It gave her clarity. The structure, the discipline, and the quiet reflection unlocked a sense of peace that stayed with her long after she left Bulacan.
Back at home, even her students and family noticed.
“They kept asking me why I seemed so calm. I just smiled. It was the breathing — and a little heart work.”
Inspired, she brought that calm into her classroom. Every morning now starts with five minutes of mindfulness and heart breathing — and the results have been magical.
“Before, my class was always noisy. Now, they’re calmer. They even remind each other to raise their hands and truly listen.”
Marichelle’s Story: “From trauma to trust — with a deep breath in between.”
Marichelle’s experience started with fear. At the Iloilo airport, just before their flight, an elderly man nearly fell inside the escalator. It was Ma’am Laarni who quickly stepped in and caught him. That moment stayed with Marichelle — not just the close call but the silence of the people around them.
“No one moved. Even the security guards just stood there. It made me wonder — where has our concern for each other gone?”
In Bulacan, that question found an answer. Through the lectures and practices, she came to realize the power of humility, presence, and connection.
One session on mental rehearsal stayed with her deeply.
“I’ve always dreamed of traveling. During the walk meditation, I kept repeating that dream. And when I got back to school, I received my Authority to Travel. My wish had become a reality.”
That affirmation reminded her: her sacrifices and struggles had meaning — and her strength was real.
“I realized that I’m a strong woman. I’ve overcome so much. And when you talk to God with your heart, He listens.”
Now, like Laarni, she’s gently introducing mindfulness to her students — one breath at a time.
Ma’am Peach’s Story: “My child changed — because I did.”
Before Bulacan, Ma’am Peach often found herself frustrated — especially with her child, who was always coming home late.
“I was constantly scolding her. It was always a fight. But the workshop made me stop and ask myself: what if she just needs to be understood?”
When she returned, he did something different. He listened.
“Now, I don’t yell. I breathe first. Then I speak. And the biggest surprise? He told me, ‘I love you.’ That never happened before.”
Their relationship has blossomed. They talk more. They laugh more. And her child, once distant, now chooses to be close.
In her classroom, Ma’am Peach also brings mindfulness into practice — not just to calm the energy but to help students visualize their dreams.
“We do heart breathing twice a day. Then, I ask them to share their visions. Some see numbers. One student said the number he saw became the score on his exam.”
When Inner Peace Turns Outward: The IPAT-SIAD Spirit
The Inner Conditioning Workshop is more than a moment of silence — it’s a process of deep listening, to oneself and to others. It connects perfectly with the goals of IPAT-SIAD: to build sustainable, inclusive communities by first grounding individuals in self-awareness and purpose.
When teachers are calm, students learn better.
When parents listen, children open up.
And when leaders reflect, communities transform.
The Kalma Self isn’t a trend. It’s a choice — to pause, to breathe, and to care. It is the quiet strength that builds peaceful homes, compassionate schools, and thriving communities.
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